Exposure Ladder for Approach Anxiety

Graded exposure is one of the most effective ways to reduce approach anxiety. You build a ladder from easier steps (e.g. eye contact, saying hi) to harder ones (asking for a number, asking on a date). You practice each step until it feels manageable, then move up. This tool gives you a default ladder you can reorder and edit. Copy it for your notes or use the ConfidenceConnect app to track which steps you've done and how your anxiety changes over time.

Your exposure ladder

Reorder or edit steps. Start with the easiest and work up. Copy your list or build and track it in the app.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an exposure ladder?
A list of situations ranked by how anxious they make you. You practice from the bottom up, building confidence gradually.