Dating Anxiety Self-Test
This self-test takes about two minutes. You answer eight questions about pre-date worry, avoidance, post-date rumination, and fear of rejection. We then show whether your dating anxiety is mild, moderate, or high and suggest one concrete next step, usually graded exposure (fear ladder) or cognitive restructuring. Your answers aren't stored. Use the result to decide whether to try self-help first or seek a therapist. Either way, the ConfidenceConnect app can support you with daily exercises.
Question 1 of 8
Before a date, I often worry for hours or days about what might go wrong.
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Frequently Asked Questions
- How accurate is a self-test?
- Self-tests give a snapshot, not a diagnosis. They're useful for awareness and next steps. For accuracy, a clinician can do a full assessment.